Executive Summary By Ann Keeler Evans & Wedding Writer
Wedding Vows As Special As Your Love
Your Wedding Vows are an integral part of your ceremony as you will be pledging not only your love and commitment to another person 'til death do you part, but you will be stating this solemn vow in front of your family, friends and the rest of the world. There are many ways you can approach your wedding vows. If you are a traditional couple, you may want to stick to the traditional vows that have been spoken by generations of married couples in your family. If you are a spiritual couple, you may choose to incorporate some meaningful verses or spiritual phrases in your vows to give them added dimension. For example, Christians often quote the beautiful words of 1 Corinthians Verse 13 that says "Love is Patient, Love is Kind..." or you may choose the very lovely Jewish verse of "With this ring, you are made holy to me, for I love you as my soul." If you are a couple that has been together for many years or if you are renewing your vows, you may be looking for a special set of wedding vows that will have a greater meaning.
There are literally thousands of different ways to state your wedding vows. If you are overwhelmed, start by jotting down some things that are important to you, give you those feelings of romance and love and allow a skillful wedding vow writer to do the work of piecing together a wonderful set of wedding vows that will convey the true feelings of your heart.
What Will Your Perfect Wedding Vows Promise About Sexual Intimacy in Your Perfect Marriage?
Your wedding vows are both the heart of your wedding ceremony and the foundation of your marriage. The best wedding vows are sweeping and fairly general formal statements. Before you craft those vows, do some serious marriage planning. What does that mean for your sexual intimacy and how does your sexual intimacy shape your wedding vows and your marriage? We are by nature people of passion. Our sexual urges are a glorious part of us. And our responsible response to those urges makes life grand. Maturing sexually with a beloved partner can expand life's boundaries immensely. And it'll make a great and happy marriage.
Answer some questions:
What are you passionate about in life? What excites you? What did you learn about sex as a child? What has your sexual experience taught you about your body? Do you have roadblocks to enjoying your body? These will range from my body isn't perfect to trauma to learned inhibitions. Are you adept at considering your partner's pleasure as well as your own?
Are you adept at engaging your partner in and engaging with your partner in not only sex, but also passionate celebration of yourselves, one another and your marriage?
What has your sexual experience and your loving experience with your partner taught you about your partner's body?
We need to know and honor our sexuality. And we need to know and honor our partner's. The goal of your sexual life is healthy, mutually satisfying pleasure and comfort.
Answer these questions and figure out on what you would base your wedding vow about your sexual engagement. Why not consider a promise in your wedding vows to celebrate your partner's sexuality? "My love, I will not withhold my passion from my life or our marriage. Tuck your answers into your Marriage Planning Binder and keep referring back to your questions and your answers throughout your life together. They will help you move through your marriage. Isn't life grand?
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